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I want him to finger me but I dont want him to see me with my pants off. It sounds like you have to talk to him about this. Truly the only way you are going to feel comfortable is if you explain to him beforehand what you are feeling.
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He probably has the same feelings too. Guys also get self conscious! Talking about this stuff can help you feel more relaxed and creates trust in the relationship. I think that before doing anything sexual you should both get used to being naked and touching each others body. I find it a lot more intense to let him penetrate you with his fingers and possibly break your hymen then to just cuddle and be naked together.
Both of you need to take the time to learn about your bodies and build trust before going any further. You must know that if he fingers you, he can break your hymen and make you bleed.
My boyfriend wants to finger me!
This can be a bit painful. Also, if you are asking all these questions it's that you might not be as ready as you think you are.
Sharing sexual experiences together and having orgasms shouldn't be embarrassing but pleasurable. It should be something you do with love and not with fear. Get informed and take your time to talk about all this stuff with him. It was my first time and I was very scared of him looking at me with no pants on but then as soon as he dose it I feel more happy and he doesnt care as long as im happy. What I am trying to say is that if you loves you sooo much then he woudnt care how you look like with out your pants off or on even!
When it was my first time I tried not to look what he is doing because then you get uncomfertable so lay down and relax and try and have a good time. I know how you feel. Im 15, and I still worry I have an ungly vagina or something, lol.
I also have stretch marks. But dont worry, he will just be happy you let him down there. And there is no rule about what to do when he is fingering you, you can make out or not. You shouldnt bleed unless your on your period, in that case I refuse to let my boyfriend near me. And if you have an orgasm in front of him, thats not embarrasing at all.
My boyfriend asked if he could finger me. do guys actually like to finger girls?
He will feel so proud of himself for making you feel that good. I agree with summerbabyy. I waited until I was 17 years old to lose my virginity, and a year and a half later, im still with the same guy.
Just let him get in there, it will be a little uncomfortable and you wont bleed unless he does it really hard I was broke in that way by my ex boyfriend but it didnt hurt, it's all a part of life and of course you will be nervous, he will be nervous too so the two of ye should just relax and have some fun.
I am 15 and have been dating my boyrifrnd for almost 6 months now. I was nervous my first time but it wasn't that bad.
If you really don't want him to see you orgasm then I personally dont think that you are ready. But if you really want to try it Well I was 15 when I first got fingered. I was embarrased for him to see me naked. Home Write Advice in. My boyfriend wants to finger me. Answer 1.
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It doesnt matter how you look it metters if your his girlfriend and that he loves you dearly. I hope this helps :.
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