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Speaking as a male, I can't think of anything that remotely equals the thrill of an orgasm. What's weird is that, for all the attention it receives, the male orgasm doesn't get talked about in much detail despite the fact that there can be a huge difference in intensity from one to the next. My guess is that the most women don't know this. With this information gap in mind, I set out to discover what, exactly, makes for the most bone-rattling, foundation-shaking male orgasms, and what women can do to encourage their arrival.
1. skip the drinks beforehand
But other times, you want a quickielike a Little Caesars pizza, but the sex version. It can be done, my friend, and this is how. Not all guys have penises, and not all people with penises are men. Healthline have also reported that it can mess with your ability to get wet or have an erection.
According to a study from the University of Leeds, hearing someone getting off can make you finish faster. If you know your partner likes to be touched on certain parts of their penis, you may be privy to their sweet spots. Yet, to really get them feeling good, Lola Jeansex educator suggests stimulating all parts of their penis.
In addition to oral and hand stuff, trying a toy like a vibrating cock ring during penetrative sex. These tools work by restricting blood flow to the peniswhich means they may also be useful if your partner struggles to stay erect during intercourse.
Sometimes the idea of being with someone new can be a total turn on. Additionally, role playing, or taking on a different persona for the night can make it easier to try a new position or different kind of dirty talk.
1. skip the drinks beforehand
According to sex therapist, Vanessa Marin, the quickest way to make a guy orgasm is to touch his anus. Its primary functions is to produce seminal fluid, and as Lola Jean shares, stimulating the prostate during sex may help your partner climax quicker.
This can be stimulated with a toy, finger, or by activating your pelvic floor muscles! Another way to speed things up in bed is to incorporate other parts of the body. As Dr. It will make you laugh — which helps increase closeness.
Try switching over to oral sex or hand sex mid-way through. Engle suggests using a wand massager on the tip of their penis or trying a prostate massager as you go down on them. Adding new toys, getting it on in a different room, or just changing your sex routine can help your partner really feel themselves. Sex is just as mental as it is physical.
Engle suggests talking to your partner about how to set a sexual mood and space that feels good for both of you. From finding lighting you like to picking out scented candles or essential oilswork together to make a sexy space you both feel good in.
In addition to creating an stress-free environment, Jean suggests cranking up the fun and making sex a space where you and your partner can laugh, play, and not be too serious. While it may seem impossible in the moment, Jean suggests trying to take your time and just enjoying the moment with each other.
This puts the focus on the experience as a whole instead of putting the spotlight on genital contact only.
Though it may be hard to forget the clock, getting in tune with each other and having fun can make your sex speedy and sexy. Gigi Engleexpert at Zumio and certified sexologist. Lola Jeansex educator.
Candice Smithsex educator. LeslieBeth Wishpsychotherapist and author.
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Archives of Sexual Behavior. This article was originally published on July 15, By Amanda Chatel and Bustle Editors. Updated: May 20, Originally Published: July 15, Talk The Talk According to a study from the University of Leeds, hearing someone getting off can make you finish faster. Incorporate The Whole Penis If you know your partner likes to be touched on certain parts of their penis, you may be privy to their sweet spots.
Role Play Sometimes the idea of being with someone new can be a total turn on. Massage The Perineum Another way to speed things up in bed is to incorporate other parts of the body.
Switch Things Up As Dr. Create A Safe Space Sex is just as mental as it is physical. Play Around In addition to creating an stress-free environment, Jean suggests cranking up the fun and making sex a space where you and your partner can laugh, play, and not be too serious. See All Health Relationships Self.