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Updated: BST, 10 January QUESTION : I have been going out with my boyfriend for five months and we have a really good time together, both in and out of the bedroom, except for one thing - he keeps asking if he can spank me. I find the whole idea a bit ridiculous and a turn-off. What should I do? There's a good reason why the French dubbed chastisement le vice anglais; quite a few Brits do seem to harbour an erotic attachment to the notion of corporal punishment. When the psychotherapist Brett Kahr published the of his British Sexual Fantasy Research Project inhe found that around 18per cent of British men and 7per cent of British women fantasise about spanking someone, while 11 per cent of men and 13 per cent of women fantasise about being spanked in some cases, clearly, spankers and spankees will overlap.
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He is charming and sweet, a great father, a great lover, hard worker that takes care of his own! He is into spanking - while were having sex and while were not having sex. And he is also into anal sex.
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I like"love tap" spankings during sex but not to the point of crying and I dont really enjoy it when were not having sex but sometimes do to be playful. He likes spanking hard and until i cry during sex and likes to spank me when were not having sex-bent over his knee. The problem were having is i like this stuff when im in the mood but not to the point of crying and lots of pain. ANd my bf thinks i should put more effort into tgis, that its not fair it's only acceptable when im in the mood and says love is sacrafice and sometimes gotta do what we dont want to do for the one u love.
I clearly disagree but he would like other womans opinion bc there are woman out there that do this with their man!
I mean it's fine if he likes it. But that doesn't mean you should do it when you don't want to. Also, because he likes it, doesn't mean it has to happen on the regular. If my husband spanked me hard enough to make me cry I would punch him in the throat half joking.
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If you don't like it he doesn't do it. You go way further with that than I would so tell him he's lucky to get what he does, if he wants to push it no more spanking. He needs to understand that your limits are your limits.
If it were me I would say well it is my turn to spank you until you cry and then I would follow through with it. I personally feel I will never ask someone to take something I'm not willing to myself. You should never feel guilted into something you don't want. Being held down and spanked makes me angry so i always react by hitting him back.
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He says its something he seriously wants me to consider Some people are into crazy bondage! Or even just a lil out of the ordinary sex.
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This discussion is archived and locked for posting. Archived discussions are usually a bit older and not as active as other community content. Ladies, i need your honest unbiased opinion! I like gentle anal for a couple minutes but not for long and not rough!
Because hes big!! Newest First. Not just his way That's a lot to take That's boarder line abuse. Actually IMHO it is rape at that point.
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Most men don't get a kick out of making their partner cry and miserable. He even would drug me so he could rape me anally. If he wasn't drugging me, he would beat me. The fact that I would be screaming from pain meant nothing. He had no respect.
Love is respect. Not making someone cry. Lastly I am going to finish with a thought. If anal sex hurts you it is a that something is wrong. It means your rectum is becoming damaged.
People have been known to have artificial rectums surgically put there because of too much anal sex. Is that what you want? Your Guide to the First Trimester of Pregnancy. Your Guide to the Second Trimester of Pregnancy. I'm not looking for confirmation or for anyone to feel at odds with me. I have something I want to say publicly but my Twitter was blocked due to my tweet storm of being outspoken to lots of political parties in Government.
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