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Full-length portrait of a pre-op transgender woman with long brown hair and a full face of makeup, wearing white jeans and an open salmon coloured blazer.


I have now fallen in love but she is transsexual and I worry what my family will say. I am 37 and had been out on a leaving do for a work colleague. A group of us ended up in a club around midnight.


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We got on really well and kissed lo. Of course I said yes when she suggested I go back to her place nearby. We started getting intimate and then she put her hand on mine, drew back and said she had something to tell me.

Genital confirmation surgery (gcs)

We had sex and it was just amazing — like nothing I have experienced before, though I am not very experienced anyway. I felt very guilty and embarrassed the next morning, though. I said a rather awkward goodbye and went home worrying that I was gay.

Again, the sex was brilliant and the connection between us so strong. SLOWING down sexually is normal as we age but men with erection problems or delayed climax might wrongly think nothing can be done.

I’m in love after mindblowing sex with a hot woman but she’s a pre-op transsexual

or private-message me on Facebook for a copy. For a copy me at problems deardeirde. She says she loves me too and has asked me to move in with her.

I really want to but how do I tell my family and friends I am dating a transsexual? Does it mean that I am gay? Although what I have with her is wonderful, I wish I had never met her.

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Before I did, my life was so much simpler. Our sexuality is a complex field and most of us are on a spectrum, not one side of a clear dividing line.

There is nothing wrong with being gay but she feels like a woman and you fell for her as a woman. You can get help with finding the right words, as well as ongoing support, through the Beaumont Society beaumontsociety.

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