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Thanks for your question. It sounds like you have a strong marital connection and are completely taken aback by the question, which is understandable. I would feel the same in your shoes. It sounds so simple but I am not sure that is how it works.


We have been married for 10 years now, I am 33, she is Two kids, one is 6 and another is 2.

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Perfect family, no complaints. I know that my wife has had a fantasy of having sex with a girl for her whole life and it looks like her fantasy might come true soon. We have another married couple who we are friends with and it looks like the other girl might be interested too.

I found out about it simply by asking my wife if she likes that girl. We spoke about our relationship and feelings. Not only does my wife have sexual interest in girls, she is totally ok with me having sex with other people, be that a guy or a girl. She is also open to any swing, swap or whatever. If she was just a GF, that would have been fun. However its different when it comes to mother of my children.

I come from Eastern Europe and even though my I am very open in sex, traditional family values are very important to me. I simply would not be able to stand knowing that my wife can be physically and emotionally involved with somebody else. Another problem is that she was very young when we got married, did not really have much sexual experience and she wants to experiment now. I totally understand that, but I just cant step over myself.

Another thing what bothers me, is that she is ok with sharing me with somebody else. I know she loves me, but I just cant imagine how one can be ok with sharing a person you love.

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I am getting lost, feels like everything is falling apart. If we did not have kids, I most likely would get divorced, but I cant stand the thought of living in a separate house from them Usually you don't open the relationship or you do and there's a wreck. I find your ideas limited and antiquated and reduces me to a uterus on a chain.

But you get to have them. You agreed to monogamy Enjoy some occasional fantasy fodder for a treat to her but otherwise it's off the table.

Seems like there's a lot of things you "can't stand. You did make a post here, so keep thinking, reading, turning it over in your head, and perhaps something will change.

In , my professional and personal lives collided.

Then again, perhaps not. Ultimately, you're free to ask for anything you want. Your wife is free to decide whether she agrees to that. It doesn't require you to comply with them. You can be open-minded without wanting specific things in your own life.

OP is expressing understanding of his wife's feelings but doesn't want a polyamorous marriage. He doesn't want to change his relationship agreement. I suggest doing some reading. Ask her how she feels about the things you mentioned. As for whether other people had similar experiences the answer is yes.

How they turned out is basically the same any other relationship situations turned out. Some worked out, some didn't for a variety of reasons, some specific to the people themselves. You have to figure out what will or won't work for you and the easiest ways to do that are to be knowledgeable about the situation and to communicate with your wife.

Found the internet! Wife wants to have sex with another woman. Posted by 4 years ago. Did anybody have a similar experience? How did it turn out?

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